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Having a new friend …
Changes everything
Having a new friend … Changes everything

Become A Volunteer

Becoming a Friends of the Elderly volunteer is one of the most rewarding things you can do. By giving you receive the benefits of a new friendships and the knowledge that you are having a meaningful impact on an older person’s life.

Become A Member

As a member of Friends of the Elderly Ireland, you’ll enjoy friendship and support through our home visitation programme, friendly calls, social clubs, day trips and mini-breaks. Becoming a member helps build meaningful relationships, enhances your sense of connection, and improves your overall well-being. You’ll never feel forgotten as having a new friend changes everything!

Your Support this Christmas
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Can you ensure no older person feels forgotten
Thank You

Support Us

We Need You

Friends of the Elderly depend on your support to continue to reach out to the elderly who are alone.

We do not receive any Government support, yet our volunteers are enhancing the social quality of life for hundreds of elderly people every day.

Latest News

Read the latest updates on all that is happening in Friends of The Elderly from fantastic Fundraisers to memorial events and much more.

Become A Volunteer

Becoming a Friends of the Elderly volunteer is one of the most rewarding things you can do. By giving you receive the benefits of a new friendships and the knowledge that you are having a meaningful impact on an older person’s life.

Become A Member

As a member of Friends of the Elderly Ireland, you’ll enjoy friendship and support through our home visitation programme, friendly calls, social clubs, day trips and mini-breaks. Becoming a member helps build meaningful relationships, enhances your sense of connection, and improves your overall well-being. You’ll never feel forgotten as having a new friend changes everything!

Your Support this Christmas
Silent Night Logo
Can you ensure no older person feels forgotten
Thank You

Support Us

We Need You

Friends of the Elderly depend on your support to continue to reach out to the elderly who are alone.

We do not receive any Government support, yet our volunteers are enhancing the social quality of life for hundreds of elderly people every day.

Latest News

Read the latest updates on all that is happening in Friends of The Elderly from fantastic Fundraisers to memorial events and much more.

What We Do

Friends of the Elderly Ireland is an Irish, non-profit, volunteer-based organisation committed to providing a wide range of social programmes for older people to help relieve social isolation and loneliness through friendship and companionship. With the help of our many dedicated volunteers and donors we can provide the necessary help and support needed.

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News

Christmas is the hardest time

Christmas Appeal 2024

Christmas is the hardest time. The loneliness feels even more intense. The silence never ends – I just feel invisible and forgotten. For many older people, like Gerry, Christmas can be a lonely time—a silent night where no one calls or visits. While the world around them fills with festive

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Look back on 2023 with Friends of the Elderly

When: 08 Jan 2024 As the tree and decorations are packed away for another year, it is the perfect opportunity to look back on 2023 and all we achieved and to look forward to new adventures in 2024.. During 2023 we continued to experience an increase in demand for our

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Members Corner

Joe – Social Club Member
Joe, 74, spent years feeling isolated after retiring from a busy work life, with no family nearby and few friends. Last Christmas, he saw an ad for Friends of the Elderly and, on a whim, made the call. He joined the Tuesday social club, though nervous, he felt at ease within minutes and even reconnected with an old school friend. Joining the social club lifted a heavy loneliness from his life, bringing laughter, companionship, and a sense of purpose he had missed for years.
Marie – Home Visitation Member
Marie found herself alone after her family moved abroad and her husband passed away. Her doctor suggested Friends of the Elderly’s befriending service, and though hesitant, she gave it a try. Soon, a friendly volunteer began visiting her regularly, bringing warmth, conversation, and companionship to her days. Through her, Marie even attended local events, meeting new people and finding a sense of connection she thought was lost. She now has a friend and a renewed sense of belonging.
George – Friendly Call Member

At 80, George lives alone in a “granny flat” behind his daughter’s home. Though he felt content, isolation grew until his daughter introduced him to Friends of the Elderly’s Friendly Calls. Now, regular calls bring him joy, filling his days with lively chats about books and films and giving him a renewed sense of connection. He recently shared with us that the friendly calls have “given me a new lease on life.”

Friends of the Elderly Ireland

Volunteer Confidentiality And Self Declaration Agreement

Friends of the Elderly is committed to respecting the privacy and confidentiality of all its members and safeguarding vulnerable groups. Volunteers must respect the professional relationship that exists between volunteers and members and work according to the Professional Boundaries Policy.

  1. I understand that through my work with the organisation and its members I may be exposed to sensitive, personal and confidential information. 

I agree to respect the confidentiality of this information and to refrain from disclosing such information without the express permission of members and the express permission of the employee responsible for my supervision.

I agree to treat all members with respect and maintain appropriate boundaries and professional relationships with them. I also understand that I must not divulge the identity of individual members of Friends of the Elderly or discuss members’ information outside of the volunteering situation.

  1. I hereby declare to the best of my knowledge and belief, there is nothing about my conduct, character or personal background of any nature that would adversely affect the position and trust as a volunteer with Friends of the elderly

 

I also understand that violation of this agreement may result in the termination of my volunteer relationship with the Friends of Elderly.

Friends of the Elderly Ireland

Code of Conduct for Volunteers

The purpose of the Code of Conduct for Volunteers is to set out standards of behaviour expected from volunteers of Friends of the Elderly Ireland (Little Brothers) Limited (‘FOTE’). All volunteers should ensure that they have read and comply with this Code of Conduct.

Volunteers should maintain the highest standards of behaviour in the performance of their duties by:

  • Fulfilling their role as outlined in their written volunteer role description to a satisfactory standard;
  • Performing their volunteer role to the best of their ability in a safe, efficient and competent way;
  • Following the charity’s policies and procedures as well as any instructions or directions reasonably given to them;
  • Acting honestly, responsibly and with integrity;
  • Treating others with fairness, equality, dignity and respect;
  • Raising concerns about possible wrongdoing witnessed by the volunteer in the course of the volunteer’s role with FOTE with the coordinator and the Manager;
  • Meeting time and task commitments and providing sufficient notice when they will not be available so that alternative arrangements can be made;
  • Acting in a way that is in line with the purpose and values of the charity and that enhances the work of the charity;
  • Communicating respectfully and honestly at all times;
  • Observing safety procedures, including any obligations concerning the safety, health and welfare of other people in line with training provided to volunteers;
  • Reporting any health and safety concerns;
  • Directing any questions regarding FOTE’s policies, procedures, support or supervision to the volunteer’s supervisor;
  • Addressing any issues or difficulties about any aspect of their role or how they are managed in line with FOTE’s grievance procedures;
  • Declaring any interests that may conflict with their role or the work of the charity (e.g. business interests or employment). If any doubt arises as to what constitutes a conflict of interest, volunteers may seek guidance from the Coordinator or the Manager;
  • Keeping confidential matters confidential;
  • Exercising caution and care with any documents, material or devices, containing confidential information and at the end of their involvement with FOTE returning any such documents, or material in their possession;
  • Seeking authorisation before communicating externally on behalf of FOTE
  • Maintaining an appropriate standard of dress and personal hygiene;
  • Disclosing the fact that they have been charged with, or convicted of a criminal offence by prosecuting authorities (or given the benefit of the Probation of Offenders Act 1907 as amended) to the Manager. For the avoidance of doubt, volunteers are not required to disclose the fact or details of ‘spent convictions’ under the Criminal Justice (Spent Convictions and Certain Disclosures) Act 2016 (as amended) to FOTE.

 

Volunteers are expected NOT to:

  • Bring the charity into disrepute (including through the use of email, social media and other internet sites, engaging with media etc.);
  • Seek or accept any gifts, rewards, benefits or hospitality in the course of their role;
  • Engage in any activity that may cause physical or mental harm or distress to another person (such as verbal abuse, physical abuse, assault, bullying, or discrimination or harassment on the grounds of gender, civil status, family status, sexual orientation, religion, age, disability, race or membership of the Traveller community);
  • Be affected by alcohol, drugs, or medication which will affect their abilities to carry out their duties and responsibilities while volunteering;
  • Provide a false or misleading statement, declaration, document, record or claim in respect of FOTE, its volunteers, employees or charity trustees;
  • Engage in any activity that may damage property;
  • Take unauthorised possession of property that does not belong to them.
  • Engage in illegal activity while carrying out their role.
  • Improperly disclose, during or after their involvement with FOTE ends, confidential information gained in the course of their role with FOTE.

 

Where a volunteer is found to be in breach of the standards outlined in this Code of Conduct or any of FOTE’s other policies and procedures this may result in the volunteer’s position being terminated. Volunteers acknowledge that no employment relationship is created in the context of their role with FOTE.

The board of Directors will review the Code of Conduct for Volunteers at 3-year intervals or as appropriate. The Manager is responsible for ensuring that this policy is implemented effectively. All other staff and volunteers, including charity trustees, are expected to facilitate this process.

Friends of the Elderly Ireland

Code of Conduct for Members

The purpose of the Code of Conduct for members of Friends of the Elderly Ireland (FOTE) is to set out standards of behaviour expected of each member.  As a member, you are required to read and comply with this Code of Conduct.

Members should maintain the highest standards of behaviour whilst accessing FOTE services by:

  • Acting honestly, responsibly and with integrity;
  • Treating others with fairness, equality, dignity and respect;
  • Communicating respectfully and honestly at all times with other members, staff, volunteers and all persons who interact with FOTE;
  • Observing safety procedures, including obligations concerning the safety, health and welfare of other people;
  • Reporting any health and safety concerns immediately to staff and/or The General Manager;
  • Directing complaints about any aspect of FOTE services to The General Manager;
  • Seeking authorisation before communicating externally on behalf of FOTE;
  • Maintaining an appropriate standard of dress and personal hygiene;
  • Disclosing the fact that they have been charged with, or convicted of, a criminal offence by prosecuting authorities (or given the benefit of the Probation of Offenders Act 1907 as amended) to the General Manager. This is important as it may have implications for accessing services due to engagement with young people and vulnerable adults.

 

Members are NOT to:

  • Engage in any activity that may cause physical or mental harm or distress to another person (such as verbal abuse, physical abuse, assault, bullying, or discrimination or harassment on the grounds of gender, civil status, family status, sexual orientation, religion, age, disability, race or membership of the Traveller community);
  • Engage in any activity that may damage FOTE property;
  • Take unauthorised possession of property that does not belong to them;
  • Engage in illegal activity whilst accessing services;

Where a member is found to be in breach of the standards outlined in this Code of Conduct, this may result in services being withdrawn.